"I'd Fight For You Too"

I was at the end of the long hallway before the question popped into my head. Never before had I questioned the history of your tiny family. How did a single man end up raising his two young daughters full-time?  

 

I turned, on my heels, and asked you something that I’d never wondered previously.  It had never occurred to me to ask you. I asked simply, “did you have to fight for them?” 

 

You answered equally as simply, “no.”

 

With that, satisfied, I turned back and carried on towards my teenage bedroom.  

 

You called my name.  I remember you calling out my name because your voice cracked.  “Virginia”, you said.  “I would have fought for them.”

 

I smiled because I believed you.  I turned again, headed towards my room and you followed with “I would fight for you, too.”

 

I don’t know if I turned back towards you to give you the smile that was deserved but I do remember my teenage heart bursting open. 

 

Here.  Here is a father who would fight for me.  A man, among men, who is not inconvenienced by the raising of children.  A constant in a world, that seemed at the time, to be ever changing.

 

I don’t know if I started calling you dadto my friends then or if that came at a later date but inside, inside, everything changed with that comment.  

 

I’d fight for you too.  

Virginia Davis, Family Mediator

Virginia Davis is a Family Mediator (AccFM Candidate) and Coach (PCC Candidate) based in London, Ontario, providing in-person services locally and virtual mediation via Zoom across Ontario. Operating Virginia Davis Family Mediation, her practice is anchored by the tagline: "Helping people navigate change with courage, clarity, and connection."

She specializes in structured, safety-informed, and child-centred out-of-court dispute resolution, supporting separating parents, blended families, and adult children managing transitions such as elder care or ongoing conflict. Grounded in over 14 years of high-stakes emergency communications experience and academic coaching at the Ivey Business School, Virginia brings calm authority, rigorous safety screening (ISRD protocol), and procedural fairness to every file.

http://www.virginiadavis.ca
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