"I'd Fight For You Too"

I was at the end of the long hallway before the question popped into my head. Never before had I questioned the history of your tiny family. How did a single man end up raising his two young daughters full-time?  

 

I turned, on my heels, and asked you something that I’d never wondered previously.  It had never occurred to me to ask you. I asked simply, “did you have to fight for them?” 

 

You answered equally as simply, “no.”

 

With that, satisfied, I turned back and carried on towards my teenage bedroom.  

 

You called my name.  I remember you calling out my name because your voice cracked.  “Virginia”, you said.  “I would have fought for them.”

 

I smiled because I believed you.  I turned again, headed towards my room and you followed with “I would fight for you, too.”

 

I don’t know if I turned back towards you to give you the smile that was deserved but I do remember my teenage heart bursting open. 

 

Here.  Here is a father who would fight for me.  A man, among men, who is not inconvenienced by the raising of children.  A constant in a world, that seemed at the time, to be ever changing.

 

I don’t know if I started calling you dadto my friends then or if that came at a later date but inside, inside, everything changed with that comment.  

 

I’d fight for you too.  

Virginia Davis

Family mediator and coach in London, ON, serving Ontario virtually. Helping separating and co-parenting families reduce conflict and reach clear, workable agreements.

http://www.virginiadavis.ca
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